Firstly I want to clear that this is not my story….it is about a person whom I have known from last 8 years. He is a random guy who is never seen serious and is kind of person I would never respect.
If you ask my opinion about him I would say –I never liked his behavior because of the kind impression he had on me is not good. But still today I thought to write a post about him so that I could make others understand that – how human behavior change with time and position.
I also want to explain that why I am writing about him because I need some people like this person himself who didn’t understand my perception that we should understand and respect individual choice and views. Let call this person as X. (I don’t want to mention his name because it could cause lot of mess)
So here is his story –
A few years back X proposed his high school classmate but his classmate rejected his proposal because she thought that X is highly immature and unfocused about his career. I have also heard that when X got rejected he cried lot and was pleading for his puppy love .Which is unbelievable to think ,that a person like X can do. But the girl rejected him very rudely. I felt bad for X because I can understand how it is to be rejected in love.
When we were young ….specially when we were teens these kinds of things are common. But we hardly forget; who our first love was and we still feel the pain of rejection.
So now X have also forgotten that rejection and now have moved on with a sweet girl. Even though I have never met her I could say her sweet and ignorant because she is with X (A kind of person who is not worthy of her). When I heard this ,I was eager to know how this thing (event) actually happened that a sweet girl fall for a person like X. Even though I am surprised with their relation ,I respect and salute the girl for accepting a person with all his demerits and merits.
For success full relation it is necessary to accept your partner’s drawbacks and if you respect him / her; it doesn’t matter what others think about you and your relationship.
PS :- X is lucky that he got a girl who accepted him ….but it is also X responsibility to put all his effort to main their relationship .(the future is unpredictable )
One thing more I would like to say that people like X always point on others and make jokes on other without understanding that earlier they were in that similar position or could be in that position. It is easy to comment and go , but it is difficult to accept the reality and show .